It Is Hard For Single Vietnamese Men Find A Decent Wife In The US
Vietnamese men have a hard time to find a decent wife in the United States of America or in other Western countries. One of the main reasons is that Vietnamese men outnumber women in these Western nations. Even though Vietnamese men who have high education and good career, many of them are still single. It is hard to find the girl that he wishes or dreams to have. Some of them have to choose a wife who is not on educated. I have some male friends who work as a software engineers, their wives are nail technicians. Are they happy? I think they are not but they have to live. Unless they come back to Viet Nam and marry a girl there, which they don’t want to.
Well, they can find a Vietnamese wife who have the same educated level as theirs, but the physical appearance is under average. Oh, man, to balance between the education and the look, some of them must pick the wives who work in the nail shops. For those Vietnamese guys who don’t have a degree, it is too hard to find a Viet wife in America, Canada, Australia and others. As you know, the Vietnamese men outnumber women so these ladies are proud of themselves. They dream of marrying a high-level educated man, even though they are not high educated. Generally speaking, if a Vietnamese girl who has a good outlook, she can get married with an educated man.
Also, thousands of single Vietnamese guys go back to Vietnam to find a decent wife. Usually, a man with good degree and career rarely do that. He’d rather pick a nail technician girl than go to Vietnam to get married with a high-degree girl. He has a chance to marry a pretty girl in the US. So, that’s the reason many Vietnamese men are single in late 30s.
Once you are still in college, try to find a Vietnamese girlfriend. Don’t wait until you graduate, it is late. It is too hard to have that chance after you work in an office. There are some Vietnamese students in school you can flirt with. Don’t wait or you are late.
Why do men like to get married in Vietnam? What are the reasons why overseas Vietnamese want to return to their hometown to find common ideas?
Before deciding to leave the single life to get married, many Viet Kieu living in the US thought that they should go back to their hometown to get married? There are a lot of men in their 40s but still can’t find a girl to marry in America. Being busy doing business and making a living in a foreign land makes it difficult for many overseas Vietnamese to find a lover to marry. There are many overseas men carrying suitcases to Vietnam to get married.
Many women also like to marry overseas Vietnamese because they think that they will “get rich”, change their lives, go to the US to live happily, but is that true? is not?
Many of you want to go back to Vietnam to get married because in the US it is simply difficult to get married, basically.
Most men go back to Vietnam to get married because we do not have time to have dating, mainly to ask a “matchmaker” to introduce. As for those who come to the US to work as a worker, a restaurant or a manicure, it is very easy to “deactivate” because they are busy with their lives, busy making money, working, and wages are not high. then try to ask women in America do they pay attention to them or not?
Then, you use the “label” of Viet Kieu to go back to the country to find a wife, find a lover, capture the thoughts of many women that marrying Viet Kieu will change their lives. Vietnamese girls, especially those in the countryside, always have simple thoughts that when they go to America, they can change their lives, can earn a lot of money, help their families .
Many men, when taking their wives to the US for the first time, did not dare to let their wives know much, did not even let their wives go out, did not let them drive or go to school because they were afraid that they would “become disillusioned”, “the needle in a long wrap the day will come ”. My wife knows the truth, becomes bored, life is difficult, unlike what I thought it became a broken marriage. Many people say that bringing a wife to America is to bring a wife to someone else. It is also true because women want to have a happy life, at first you draw a beautiful perspective, but in the end, the life is poor, difficult, the woman is bored and will have to find someone. other qualifying for yourself.
I suggest that Vietnamese women in Viet Nam to study carefully before getting married, and what is wrong with men? Do not hide it, just frankly say that there I also live hard there, not rich. If you can accept it, if you love me, you will both try hard. This will quickly make money and get rich quickly, and life will be stable if both of them try hard together.
There are many people who cannot get married in America because they cannot afford: The man is nearly 50, living in America with his mother. “I work the night shift, when I go home in the morning I just sleep, I don’t have many friends to play with, I also have little contact with anyone.”
“I came to America when I was an adult, so I had to work like a buffalo with a low salary, so I can’t marry a Vietnamese wife here.”
Yeah, it is hard. Oversea Vietnamese men can’t find a wife in the West if they work low jobs and make low money. There are thousands of single Vietnamese girls and women at https://vietsingle.us dating site looking for love and marriage with high educated men. As you know that Vietnamese women are very attracted with silky hair, smooth skin, petite bodies, and the graceful way when they walk on street, they seem to make men to turn their head. In other words, getting married with a Vietnamese wife will benefit you in many ways. A Viet girl can cook delicious dinner and does other house chores. The most important factor that Vietnamese women stand out from Western women is the honest in relationship and marriage. She loves you by heart, not by rich materials you have. She does not love you by your Lexus, BMW, big house, big bank account, she loves you by your true heart.
How do Vietnamese women find high educated or rich men online?
They go to clubs or Vietnamese dating sites such as Vietnam cupid or https://vietsingle.us/go/united_states dating site. Most guys think that they must be rich or have a lot of money to date a beautiful girl, this is not true to date Vietnamese girls. The only important thing to win her heart is the honest and loyalty, care and respect. You will win her heart permanently. If you try to show off your rich materials, then you will loose the game. Be patient to take your time slowly. Try to show her your care and the true love you are about to give her.
Vietnam women are not weak or submissive as you think. They just don’t show off like Western girls do. I have known one Viet lady who lives in Las Vegas, California at Viet Single dating site. She is strong, smart, and honest the same as Western women.
Viet girls do not usually get fat as they age. They always try to be on diet and stay in good shape. They look younger than their real age are. Vietnam ladies stay attractive far longer than Western women because they stay in good shape.
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What wrong with high educated man marries a nails tech? I dont see nothing wrong with that. I know some nails techs are smarter than high educated men. You are so wrong.
Hey I’m not Viet. I am interested in Viet Kieu for serious dating possibly more. Men 40 plus. I am Pacific Islander, Other Asian and African American decent. I grew up Asian culturally. Let’s talk!
C’mon dude. You think a software engineer is highly educated? And a nails technician is considered low and uneducated? Are you retarded? A job is a job and every confident man knows that once he set his heart to love someone, he loves her for who she is. Granted most nails technicians don’t have a college degree but again, majority of the people in this profession are of the older generation. They came to the States with many disadvantages (too late to go back to school, takes too long to learn English, ect.) thus, doing nails is the quickest way to earn a living in order to survive.
I have a Master degree, teaching at one of the largest university in the States, I run my own company, and my full time job is a Director for an IT department, yet i don’t consider myself highly educated and look down on people just because of their professions. Only a low self-esteem man would settle for a partner then bitching about how unhappy he is.
I am about to write this and found your comment, I am totally agreed with you. so sánh kh?p khi?ng ?úng la th?ng retarded.
Well said! Totally agreed with you, Dangster!
It’s great that you commented, because this is the third post I’ve read that says things full of prejudice and I was already thinking that it was something on Vietnamese thought and it really scared me but I am glad to know that these kind of blogs wich the person is full of prejudices are the exception of the rule and Sir, your vision of the world is respectful and realistic and I am glad to see that not all men are the same and that there are empathic people who do not need demonstrate their intelligence by stepping on others.
To the writer of this blog : Contrary to what you said, a university’s degree does not make you smarter, specially if you do not have logical reasoning, if you are not empathetic person and if you do not know how to relate to the world around you. Those who think like this, it doesn’t matter if they find a woman with a higher education or one who has a professional career like nail designer or maid,etc… they can never be happy because they think they are better than others. Read L’Élégance du hérisson( or watch the movie if you don’t like to read).
how are you
It’s nearly impossible to find knowledgeable people about this subject, but you seem like you know what you’re talking
Have you since found your dream Vietnamese girl yet Anh?
I am a Vietnamese man in my early forties.. 41 to be exact. My family came to America as refugees in 1980. Growing up in America can be quite confusing at times, due to the balancing of both Vietnamese and American culture. My life in America have lead me astray from my roots at an early age up to my mid 30’s. I have been in 3 relationships up til present day. My first relationship was with a Hispanic woman. My second relationship was with a Thai woman. My most recent relationship was with a Korean woman. After all those relationship experience, I realize that going with my own race (and religion) would have been the absolute best option. However, life does not always work out like the way we want. After my second relationship, with the Thai lady, I realize that although the religious connection was there, the culture and race aspect was not in tune. I was all willing to completely embrace Vietnamese women. However, fate would lead me to a wonderful educated Korean beauty that I had a relationship with for 3 years. Although I absolutely love Korean culture I did not want to lose my identity as a Vietnamese man. Plus, we also had a major disconnection relating to our religion. She was from a Baptist Christian background and I am Buddhist. As I was taught within my religious values, open-mindedness and non discrimination against other religions are some of the core religious practices. However, these values are very much different within her faith. The other thing that ultimately lead to a mutual acceptance between us was the fact that changes of characteristics and practices seem to mostly fall on me. She was very demanding yet was not willing to change enough to a compromising level within the relationship. So ends my most recent relationship. As fortune would have it, I’m pretty blessed with the fact that most people would not be able to tell that I am 41 or even close. I am an educated man with a 4 years BS degree in Industrial Design. I have a great job and a stable life. I have a healthy and fit lifestyle that consist of healthy home cooking and consistent daily exercise. But I digress. I cannot speak for every Vietnamese American males in America when it comes to how I perceive having a relationship in this country. One of my biggest fear regarding returning to Vietnam to find a good Vietnamese wife is in regards to all the horror stories of Vietnamese American men marrying women from Vietnam and then their relationship ends up in divorce due to various circumstances including prior establishment of relationship in Vietnam with another person, lack of interest in American lifestyle and even lost of interest from the woman driven by financial greed. All this is more than enough to scare any man to take his chances in America rather than waste any more of his lifetime with a woman who will eventually leave him. I have realize that throughout my dating experience, no matter how I look at it, I am not fully Vietnamese, even though I was born in Vietnam. Therefore, to marry a Vietnamese woman from Vietnam would more than likely create huge cultural conflicts within our lives together. Don’t get me wrong, I would absolutely love for the opportunity to meet and fall in love with a beautiful, respectful and well educated Vietnamese woman. However, regardless of where I find her, there needs to be a level of cultural tolerance, time and patience between us in order for everything to work out. Yes, that does sound very much like a fairy tale. As a Vietnamese Man trying to find a good Vietnamese woman in America, it has been very difficult. Most of the time, the attractive ones are very high maintenance and are too Americanize to cherish Vietnamese cultural values. Some are very so called, “White Washed”. Yes indeed, it is absolutely difficult for a Vietnamese American man in this country. This is why I am still living everyday hoping to one day meet my dream Vietnamese woman. And so I continue looking around the corners of my eyes when I am out and about.. and life continues on.
Oh come on man, Vietnamese men can find a good wife in the US, certainly. Only some poor and lazy Vietnamese guys can’t find a wife in America so they have to go back to marry single girls in Vietnam. That’s what I think.