Why do Vietnamese American Women Eye With Doubt on Men Who Return To Viet Nam Alone?

Vietnamese American eye with doubt on men who return to Viet Nam because of many reasons. The major reason is the jealousy of beautiful and young girls with long legs in the homeland. Many of these pretty local single women fall on these men who are from America return to homeland because of power and money.

Getting a visa from the Vietnamese government in US is a piece of cake but getting a visa from his wife is a hardest thing. Most Vietnamese American women place strict rules on their husbands who want to return to homeland because they are jealous of long-leg ladies over there. Every time they want to go back there, the “second visa” from their wife is the hardest thing that they hardly get approved.

“She always gives me hard time with many can’t-answered questions like WHY every time I ask her to go to homeland”, said David Ng, my friend, who is 52 years old, wants to return to Vietnam and visit his brother and relatives. He said, “she asked me why I need to go there, what will I do over there, and so on”. He feels tired every time he asks about this “second approved visa” from his wife.

There are many with many Vietnamese American ladies complain about men who return to homeland. They’ve heard many bad and miserable stories about old Vietnamese American men return home and live with young local ladies as husband and wife and don’t want to return to the U.S. This happened and currently happens a lot. As a result, Vietnamese American ladies eye with doubt on guys who want to return over there to work or do business.

“Young Vietnamese ladies are not shy nowadays. They approach to you and attack you!” said Mark Le, another friend of mine, 39 years old man. He went to a local club one day and three girls approached to him and make acquainted with him. He said they are beautiful and sexy. “If they know you are a Vietnamese American man (Viet Kieu My), then they will get acquainted with you and marry you later. They hope to make money on you or are sponsored to the US to live.”

Vietnamese American women are worried when their husband travels back home alone. Many Vietnamese men in America traveled back home alone with reasons to visit their ill relative but in fact, play with attractive young women over there. Everywhere you go in Vietnam, there are beautiful young women who are from 18 to 25, willing to serve “sex” for you, by this way or another, if you request it, including Cafe shops, beer shops, restaurants, barber shops and so on. This is one of the major reasons that Vietnamese American ladies rarely approve the “second visa” for their husband to return back home alone.

“Local Vietnamese women are very beautiful today. They are taller and prettier than the last generation.” said David. “Most of the places you go to eat or drink, there are beautiful young women who wear very short skirts or pants to show off their long and smooth legs. They always use lack-of-clothes uniforms to show off their bare breasts in front of you. This is the way to do business in VN. Business owners use young and sexy ladies to attract male customers.”

“There are many young women in Vietnam willing to get married with old men. Some over 50-year-old Vietnamese American men get married with 25-year-old women, which is happening.” said David. “Most of these girls who were born in a poor family, trying to get married with a rich husband to change their life and/or to come to America to work and make money. They make less than $10 a day.” David added.

“I graduated with a Bachelor degree (BS) from a university in Hanoi. I got a job in a company that pays me $300 a month.” said Kim Ngoc, my cousin in Vietnam. “Young women who serve in a restaurant can make $500 a month”, she added. “It is hard to find a job in VN. If you don’t have a connection, then you will have a hard time to find a good job after graduation”.

Vietnam is one of the poorest countries in Asia. Millions of young people move into big cities like Saigon or Hanoi looking for opportunities to work and make money. Especially, Vietnamese young women must accept most of possible work to make money for themselves and their family, including most of sex-related jobs. Because lacking of money, they will do everything including to serve sex for men. Therefore, Vietnamese American men (Viet Kieu) are seen as the “ideal catches” for them. There are thousands of single Vietnamese Americans who signed up at online dating site Vietdating.us to find local young women over there. Certainly, Vietnamese American ladies don’t approve the “second visa” for their man to travel to Vietnam alone.