Vietnamese girls in USA (Dan ba Vietnam o My) are more powerful and responsible. One primary reason is because they educated the Western culture. Responsibility is the first priority of all American people to take care of themselves and their family. When Viet girls who live here for a few years, they learn this custom. They work hard and they take care of their family. I have seen some single Vietnamese mothers who can take care of two or three young children with no problem. They work full time and they raise their children without any support from their ex-husbands. This is a great example of Vietnam girls who live in the United States. They are more responsible than girls who currently live in Saigon, Hanoi, TPHCM, Vietnam.
Viet girls in Vietnam ( Con gai Viet) follow the traditional custom. The man goes out to make money and the woman stays home to take care of the children and housework. This is a good custom, isn’t it? In other words, most Vietnamese women in Vietnam depends on their husbands for everything. So, even if the husband treat bad to his wife, she will not dare to leave him. She does not have money. This is the first thing she worries about. I have seen many Vietnamese husbands beat up their wives in the house and in public, these wives still stay with their husbands. They live as an dependant from their men, so they can not leave out the house. Vietnamese girls in Vietnam country depends on their husbands for a living.
Vietnamese women in America (Con gai Vietnam o Hoa Ky) work hard to take care of their family, either by themselves or with the help from their husband. It is just a different society of each nation. In USA, Viet women have to work hard because of the higher living condition here, such as house, mortages, finance, and other expenses. They have to work to live on this great country. When they work and live independently like a man, they are not afraid of their men. They can take care of themselves easily. Most Vietnamese people in here get good opportunities in the United States so they can make good money and live in a high condition. Vietnamese women in America work hard and still take a good care of their housework.
Women in Vietnam (Phu nu Vietnam) usually stay home after married. They take care of the housework and children. The husband works to take care of the family so he is responsible for the expense in the family. He is the only one who can make money. Vietnamese wives respect their husbands because of such reasons. Generally speaking, Viet girls in USA are more powerful because they can speak what they think as well as share ideas with their husbands equally. On the other hand, most girls in Vietnam can’t speak the truth. They can’t share ideas with their husbands because their ideas are not respected. Most of the time, the husband does not listen to his wife. This happens a lot in a developing country like Vietnam.