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Vietnamese Mail Order Brides: Marry a Vietnamese Wife

Vietnamese women is no doubt the pride for Asian beauty. No wondering there are many Western men pursuing the dream of marrying a Vietnamese woman. Nowadays the online dating is too popular that is even more successful than real-life dating. Long distance love is getting shorter because of the convenience of the Internet that brings people together. You can see each other by a video chat. Woh, that’s great.

Women in Vietnam

Vietnamese women are popular to the West because of their personality and physical beauty. After the Vietnam War 1975, there are thousands of people from this country migrated to the US, Canada, Australia and so on, by political refugees and/or economic reasons. What’s special about these women in Vietnam and why many Western men pursuing the dream of having a Vietnamese bride? Let’s find out some unique characters about them.

Mail order brides is the old term that people call, where single men can actually pay money to buy a bride. As in this modern century, the expression of buy a bride is no longer used, except countryside areas of Vietnam where girls are not educated and poor, so they are willing to accept Chinese, Korean and Taiwanese men to be their husband. In other words, many single men from China, Korea and Taiwan come to Vietnam to find young girls who are from 18 to 28 years old. They pay some money for the girl’s parents to get married with her. These girls have no choice because they are poor so they want to change their life to come to a new country for better opportunity. Therefore, there are many old man young woman marriage relationships happen, even in this 21st century in Viet Nam.

Asian men can still actually buy Vietnamese brides. I personally don’t think Western men can do the same thing. Most of Vietnamese girls do like to get married with a Western husband. No doubt about that. They think men in the West treat the woman in better manner than Asian man does. Most of these girls speak English so they will communicate in English. In Vietdating dating website, you can browse all girls who write English in their personal profiles, that mean they want to find a Western husband. This is kind of online international dating in stead of mail order bride service. The modernized mail order brides are the girls looking for a husband oversea. Vietdating dating site provides them a way to make it easier on their demands.

Why are Vietnamese women interested in Western men?The most important thing you, Western men, have is the beautiful physical structure. You are tall and strong. They love you because of the strong physical body-built. The second thing is the way you treat them with respects. Most Vietnamese men don’t say I love you after they get married. Most Vietnamese men don’t even kiss their wife after they get married. However, you do both every hour, every day, so they love you.

When you are seeking a Vietnamese woman on the Internet, you should be aware of online dating scams. They are not real girls in Vietnam. They are from other countries like Nigeria, Senegal, South Africans, etc. They act like Vietnamese women to scam your money. If you think any girl is scam, then please contact us immediately. Don’t believe any girl you meet online. Don’t send money with any woman you meet online. Love is not about money.

Just like any Asian women in Asia, women in Vietnam are charming and unique. They just longs for real love and care from you, not your money. They consider marriage as a life-long commitment. They don’t get divorced because you get laid off from work or struggled with your financial situation. They love you and willing to share all joyful and sad things in life.

Are you still thinking that Vietnamese women are the same as other Asian babes? No, they are different. There are many dating sites like Asian dating, Vietnamese cupid where you can find a single woman but Vietdating.us provides you more opportunities to find a perfect life match. I am a Vietnamese so I know what exactly Vietnamese women are looking for in a man.

So, how do you find a Vietnamese bride?
1. Create a personal profile to introduce yourself. Post well-made pictures of yourself to increase percentage of success on a dating website.
2. Once your profile is active, you try to contact any Vietnamese girl you like.
3. You should read our blog to understand about Vietnam culture.

P.S. If you don’t want to create a profile but interested in Vietnamese mail order brides, then you can contact us.

Taiwanese Men Seek Vietnamese Mail Order Brides

(Reuters) – In Taiwan, some men choose brides from the comfort of their living rooms by watching a TV show that airs photographs and biographical details of Vietnamese women looking for husbands.

The women are willing to marry men sometimes decades older than themselves to exchange a life of poverty at home for relative affluence abroad. These couples often don’t live happily ever after. Vietnam native Nguyen Chi, 28, was kicked out by the husband she married five years ago and now scrapes by working at an electronics factory in Taipei. Ten of her 20 Vietnamese colleagues have also been dumped by their Taiwan husbands.

Vietnamese mail order brides

Vietnamese mail order brides

“We’ve all got the same problem. We’re divorced or our husbands don’t want us, and some of us are raising kids,” said Nguyen, speaking in Mandarin learned during five years in Taiwan.

“I figured it would be a lot better than Vietnam here, but I hadn’t been before. It’s not that easy to make money.”

The story of women such as Nguyen has prompted Taiwan and Vietnam — whose 75,000 nationals are the island’s largest non-Chinese immigrant group — to get tougher on cross-border marriages to stop fraud and illegal residency following break-ups.

Taiwan men looking for “mail-order brides” are partial to Vietnamese women who they consider to be particularly submissive, matchmakers say. Often left on the shelf by local women, these men are looking for wives willing to have babies and help their aging parents, the matchmakers add.

Men often enlist friends and business contacts in their wife search. But the popularity of Vietnamese brides is so great that there is now a prime time television show that broadcasts photographs and biographical data of prospective wives.

Those who prefer a more personal approach use the services of about 300 marriage brokers operating in Taiwan who organize wife shopping trips to Vietnam at costs that range from $900 to $10,000 for stays up to one week.

Before leaving, the men can narrow down the field by flipping through photos of available young women.

POLICE CRACKDOWN

Police are cracking down though. A new law that forbids women from marrying Taiwan men more than 10 years their senior has hurt business for brokers, a Taipei-based matchmaker said.

In early April, police in Ho Chi Minh City broke up a matchmaking ring and arrested two suspected marriage brokers. A raid on a home turned up more than 100 women seeking husbands.

But despite the risks, Vietnamese brides who come to Taiwan can enjoy lifestyles and amenities hard to find at home.

“Life in Vietnam isn’t great. I wanted to come here, and I did it by fate,” said Du Hsue-li. “Here there’s work. I can buy what I want,” added the 25-year-old.

Despite a more affluent life, some brides are ill equipped to deal with cultural and other issues, including large age gaps with their husbands and demanding in-laws. Lack of Chinese language skills can also cramp marriages.

Some husbands hold their foreign mail-order brides captive.

“The men control their ID cards, won’t let them contact other Vietnamese women,” said a Vietnamese woman who takes distress calls for a support group. She gets about 10 calls a day.

Vietnam’s state-run e-newspaper Vnexpress.net says most brides headed to Taiwan lack formal education and usually meet their husbands less than three times before getting hitched.

“We all wish Vietnamese women could find good husbands who love them and provide them with a secure life instead of the tragic plight endured by those who were unfortunate to marry Taiwanese or Korean men only for material purposes and no real love,” an article in Vnexpress.net states.

Some foreign brides brought to Taiwan under the pretext of marriage end up as forced laborers or prostitutes, according to a U.S. State Department report on human trafficking.

Taipei is trying to curb this through better screening of women moving to Taiwan and also by pushing marriage brokers to make home visits to check on the new brides.

Nguyen, stung by her husband’s rejection and obstacles to earning money, hopes to return to Vietnam one day.

“It’s a little bit better in Taiwan, a little bit safer,” she said. “But it’s difficult to live here.”

(Additional reporting by Nguyen Nhat Lam in Hanoi)