There are thousands of men in the West who have been scammed or being scammed by women in Vietnam, especially Vietnamese Americans, Australians, Canadians and so on. They are scammed by several situations and ways.

Some guys told me that they were scammed by Vietnamese women who kept digging the money after they met each other and/or they came to the new country. Others said that these ladies filed divorce after they get a green card in the new country. And, there are many other ways.

What’s going on here, guys?

I personally blame on both Vietnamese women and men in the West too. However, the ratio of men who are scammed is so rare compared to the successful couples. Every year, there are more than 5,000 marriage visas of Vietnamese wives come to Western countries. Within this 5,000 women, I think there are less than 500 (or 10 percent) of men being scammed. Here are some reasons behind this.

Older man younger women marriages

If you are a 58-year old man who married a 25-year old girl, then this is a fool. I guarantee you will be scammed by her soon or later, either by digging your money or leave you for another man. 33 years older is a big difference. This happens a lot lately. Old buffalos prefer to eat “baby” grass. However, to get a serious and long term wife, you must find a compatible one.

Tell untrue things

Many overseas men lied about their background, career, education and so on. That’s right. Vietnamese women complained about what their husbands told them before marriage and what they see and know today. Some men don’t tell the truth about themselves with their wife. When these Vietnamese ladies come to the West, they are disappointed.

So, I hope this short article bring up some points for both Vietnamese women and overseas men. Being honest is the best policy. To avoid being scammed by others, you must not scam others first.

There are more than 5,000 successful marriages about Vietnamese women with overseas men every year. They either met each other through friends and family’s introduction or by the internet Vietnamese dating sites. Why are you being scammed?

Vietnamese woman

The dating scene with Vietnamese girls is different from what you expect. Trust me on this. Whether you met her at club, social parks, markets or even at online dating sites, you have to learn some tricks when meeting her family. You know what? It is extremely important that you know these tips before you meet them. It does not matter you are an Asian, Hispanic, Black or White man, dating Vietnamese women is different from your own race. You have to learn these tricks.

Do homework before you meet her family

Her Parents Make You Eat Some Food With Fish Sauce

If you have never tried fish sauce (nuoc mam), then you will throw up immediately. Some Vietnamese popular food is spring roll, egg roll, fried noodle, sour soup (canh chua), you must eat dip them with fish sauce. Anyway, I am not trying to scare you. Learning how to do it is a first step to meet her parents.

Her Parents Ask You What Your Plan Is About Marrying Her

You will be embarrassed about this question. Yes, you will. Don’t say things like “You don’t have to worry about this. This is between her and I”. This is the stupid answer so don’t ever say that. Vietnamese parents usually worry about their parents in detailed so they may interfere in detailed about that topic too.

It does not matter how long she lives in the West like US or Canada, she is submissive. I don’t care what you think about submissive Vietnamese ladies. If you are dating her, then accept it the way it is. Her father may ask you about your wedding plan with his daughter. As you know that Vietnamese women don’t talk about that with their boyfriends. You, the man, have to open it up.

Generally speaking, you must be rated high from her parents. Well, that’s a good thing to make her parents and her siblings like you. You don’t have to show off your rich materials to her family. Don’t do that. Be the man, the good man for her and prove that to her family.

Those are tips you should know. What else do I miss?

Comments


thuyle30

  • Posted 2 years ago
Fish sauce will make you throw up? Really!!!

Telling a girl parents what you do to their daughter is none of their business? You must be dumb and an asshole to begin with, since when is that acceptable in any culture at all. Kids like you should be shot with a double barrier shotgun to the head.

Mon an Vietnam la tuyet voi nhat nhe cac ban.

thuyle30

  • Posted 2 years ago
Don’t think bad about Vietnamese women, ok? I think many Viet Kieu came back to VN showed off their rich materials like spending money too much… So, Vietnamese ladies fall on that. This is not love but money. Only a few ladies scam VK’s money and the rest are looking for true love. So, don’t blame on women in Vietnam. Think about yourself first. Did you really look for a woman for marriage? Or you just play around with women for sex…. then… gone with the wind???


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