{"id":89,"date":"2019-03-06T22:45:47","date_gmt":"2019-03-07T03:45:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tim-ban-bon-phuong.vietdating.us\/?p=89"},"modified":"2024-12-08T23:30:31","modified_gmt":"2024-12-09T04:30:31","slug":"em-muon-lay-chong-viet-kieu-my","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vietdating.us\/blog-vn\/em-muon-lay-chong-viet-kieu-my\/","title":{"rendered":"Em Mu\u1ed1n L\u1ea5y Ch\u1ed3ng Vi\u1ec7t Ki\u1ec1u M\u1ef9"},"content":{"rendered":"

Em Mu\u1ed1n L\u1ea5y Ch\u1ed3ng Vi\u1ec7t Ki\u1ec1u M\u1ef9<\/strong><\/p>\n

D\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p cho con g\u00e1i s\u1ed1ng t\u1ea1i Vietnam mu\u1ed1n l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng Vi\u1ec7t Ki\u1ec1u M\u1ef9. M\u1ed7i n\u0103m c\u00f3 h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0n ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng t\u00ecm ch\u1ed3ng qua m\u1ea1ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec5 k\u1ebft th\u00e2n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 g\u1ed1c Vi\u1ec7t(Vietnamese Americans hay Vietkieu).<\/p>\n

Theo th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea cho bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 c\u00f3 h\u01a1n 50% \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 Viet Nam l\u00e0m quen Viet Kieu b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c trang web t\u00ecm b\u1ea1n b\u1ed1n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. N\u00f3i r\u00f5 th\u00eam l\u00e0 h\u1ecd d\u00f9ng m\u00e1y vi t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ec5 \u0111\u0103ng k\u00fd h\u1ed3 s\u01a1 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i, sau \u0111\u00f3 ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi h\u1ecd b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch g\u1ee1i email \u0111\u1ebfn anh n\u00e0o m\u00e0 h\u1ecd th\u00edch. Khi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m xong h\u1ed3 s\u01a1 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec5 t\u00ecm \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec5 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm theo qu\u1ed1c gia, ti\u1ec5u bang, th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1, tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed9, t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh v.v. Khi t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ai m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u00edch, ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, qu\u00ed v\u1ecb ch\u0129 c\u1ea7n g\u00f5i tin nh\u1eafn. Qu\u00ed v\u1ecb c\u00f3 th\u1ec5 vi\u1ebft v\u00e0i c\u00e2u nh\u01b0 “em th\u00edch h\u1ed3 s\u01a1 c\u1ee7a anh, r\u1ea5t mong \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n, v.v”.<\/p>\n

Em mu\u1ed1n l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng Vi\u1ec7t Ki\u1ec1u M\u1ef9 l\u00e0 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i m\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00e1c ch\u1ecb c\u1ea7n t\u00ecm hi\u1ec5u cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng Viet Kieu<\/a><\/strong> tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi l\u00e0m quen b\u1ea5t c\u1eeb anh n\u00e0o nh\u00e9. H\u1ea3y lu\u00f4n c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng t\u1ed1t l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u1ecb y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1eb1ng t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1eb5ng v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5c. Do \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i khuy\u00ean c\u00e1c c\u00f4 l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 l\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 c\u00f4 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u00e3m t\u00ecnh th\u1eadt s\u1ef1. V\u00ec h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u0129 d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o ti\u1ec1n, xe \u0111\u1eb9p, nh\u00e0 cao, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a quy\u1ec7n gi\u1eefa hai t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n.<\/p>\n

Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec5 c\u01b0\u1edbi Vi\u1ec7t kieu hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 g\u1ed1c Vi\u1ec7t. \u0110\u0103ng k\u00fd m\u1ed9t h\u1ed3 s\u01a1 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n th\u00f4ng qua m\u1ed9t trang web h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn n\u01a1i \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho h\u1ed3 s\u01a1 n\u00e0y. T\u00f4i khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch b\u1ea1n n\u00ean t\u1ea3i l\u00ean m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i t\u1ea5m h\u00ecnh tr\u00ean h\u1ed3 s\u01a1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec5 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y. H\u1ecd s\u1ebb th\u00edch ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi h\u1ed3 s\u01a1 c\u00f3 h\u00ecnh h\u01a1n c\u00e1c h\u1ed3 s\u01a1 kh\u00f4ng h\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1eebng vi\u1ebft qu\u00e1 d\u00e0i nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 ng\u1eafn tr\u00ean m\u1ee5c qu\u1ea3ng c\u00e1o c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi m\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn, nh\u01b0 “em mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm Viet Kieu”, “mu\u1ed1n l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng \u1ee1 M\u1ef9”, v.v. N\u00ean ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n \u00edt nh\u1ea5t 5 tu\u1ed7i v\u00ec s\u1ef1 ch\u1eefng ch\u1ea1c v\u00e0 nghi\u00eam t\u00fac c\u1ee7a anh ta.<\/p>\n

\"Little<\/a>
Little Saigon – Phuoc Loc Tho<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

L\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 g\u1ed1c Vi\u1ec7t c\u00f3 d\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng?<\/strong><\/p>\n

R\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u1ec5 l\u1ea5y ch\u00f4ng VK M\u1ef9 v\u00ec c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00f4 d\u00e2u Vi\u1ec7t Nam \u0111\u00e3 chia tay v\u00e0 ly d\u1ecb khi h\u1ecd sang Hoa K\u1ef3. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00f4 g\u00e1i t\u00ecm ch\u1ed3ng Viet Kieu v\u1edbi m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch duy nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 “sang M\u1ef9” m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. N\u00ean khi h\u1ecd sang \u0111\u00e2y, b\u1ecf ch\u1ed3ng 1 c\u00e1i r\u1ee5p m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ebft c\u00e1i c\u00f4ng m\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ea3o l\u00e3nh sang v\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 do v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0y. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 g\u1ed1c Vietnam ng\u00e0y nay r\u1ea5t e d\u00e8 v\u00e0 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a k\u1ef9 c\u00e0ng khi v\u1ec1 Vietnam l\u1ea5y v\u1ee3. VK n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 t\u1ea1i USA th\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 nghe qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e1t b\u00e0i ca c\u1ee7a nh\u1ea1c s\u0129 Lam Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng “anh \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea7m \u0111\u01b0a em sang \u0111\u00e2y, \u0111\u1ec5 \u0111\u00eam v\u1ec1 nghe ti\u1ebfng th\u1ee1 d\u00e0i”.<\/p>\n

\"Viet<\/a>
Viet Kieu My tai Quan Cam<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Vi\u1ec7t Ki\u1ec1u M\u1ef9 c\u01b0\u1edbi v\u1ee3 VN s\u1ebd ch\u1ecdn lo\u1ea1i ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u00e0o?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 1 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi m\u00e0 ch\u1ecb em n\u00ean \u0111\u1ecdc k\u1ef9. Viet Kieu US l\u1ea5y v\u1ee3 Vietnam s\u1ebb ch\u1ecdn ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i “n\u1ebft”. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng n\u00e0o c\u0169ng th\u00edch ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef “\u0111i\u1ec7n n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u0169, v\u00fa b\u1ef1, m\u00f4ng to”. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu ch\u1ecb em n\u00e0o c\u00f3 c\u00e3 2 th\u1ee9 “n\u1ebft v\u00e0 s\u1eafc” th\u00ec s\u1ebb c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i h\u01a1n c\u00e1c c\u00f4 g\u00e1i kh\u00e1c. Theo kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, th\u00ec ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 VK M\u1ef9 n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 VN c\u01b0\u1edbi v\u1ee3 “qu\u00e1 x\u1ea5u” m\u00e0 b\u1ea3o l\u00e3nh sang USA \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u01b0.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb em c\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho m\u1ea5y \u00f4ng VK tin t\u01b0\u1ee1ng hay kh\u00f4ng? N\u1ebfu ch\u1ecb em mu\u1ed1n l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng VK M\u1ef9 v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3o l\u00e3nh sang \u0111o\u00e0n t\u1ee5 v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng, th\u00ec m\u1ea5y b\u00e0 h\u1ea3y l\u00e0m cho m\u1ea5y \u00f4ng tin t\u01b0\u1ee1ng.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eeaNG BAO GI\u1edc XIN TI\u1ec0N VI\u1ec6T KI\u1ec0U<\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i n\u00f3i th\u1eb5ng c\u00e2u n\u00e0y v\u00ec n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng. Qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u VK ch\u01a1i g\u00e1i Vi\u1ec7t m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u01b0\u1edbi hay b\u1ea3o l\u00e3nh c\u0169ng v\u00ec l\u00fd do n\u00e0y. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00f4 hay than v\u00e3n, t\u00fang thi\u1ebfu v\u00e0 xin m\u1ea5y anh g\u1ee1i ti\u1ec1n gi\u00fap h\u1ecd, 2 tri\u1ec7u, 5 tri\u1ec7u, 10 tri\u1ec7u. N\u00f3i thi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi ch\u1ecb em l\u00e0 s\u1ed1 ti\u1ec1n n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u00f5 so v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u00ean M\u1ef9, m\u1ea5y \u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec5 cho m\u1ea5y b\u00e0. Nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd s\u1ebb ngh\u0129 g\u00ec? H\u1ecd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u1ea5y c\u00f4 “l\u00e0m ti\u1ec1n” h\u1ecd v\u00e0 h\u1ecd s\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb7c m\u1ea5y c\u00f4 v\u00e0o danh s\u00e1ch “kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng tin”.<\/p>\n

L\u00fd do ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef Vi\u1ec7t th\u00edch l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng VK M\u1ef9<\/strong><\/p>\n

R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fd do m\u00e0 con g\u00e1i Vi\u1ec7t Nam th\u00edch l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng Vi\u1ec7t Ki\u1ec1u M\u1ef9.<\/p>\n

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  • Hoa K\u1ef3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u1ed1c gia ti\u00ean ti\u1ebfn nh\u1ea5t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi,<\/li>\n
  • T\u00ecm c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c d\u1ec3 d\u00e0ng v\u1edbi thu nh\u1eadp cao (l\u00e0m m\u00f3ng tay ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb 70 tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ebfn 110 tri\u1ec7u m\u1ed5i th\u00e1ng, l\u00e0m l\u1eadp tr\u00ecnh vi\u00ean (software engineer) ki\u1ebfm 200 \u0111\u1ebfn 400 tri\u1ec7u m\u1ed1i th\u00e1ng, v.v.),<\/li>\n
  • H\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ti\u00ean ti\u1ebfn, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc th\u00eam, h\u1ecdc mi\u1ec3n ph\u00ed 100% t\u1eeb ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ebfn trung h\u1ecdc. H\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc th\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00ednh ph\u1ee7 cho m\u01b0\u1ee3n ti\u1ec1n v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 tr\u1ea3 sau khi t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi ti\u1ec1n l\u1ea3i r\u1ea5t th\u1ea5p d\u00e0nh cho h\u1ecdc sinh,<\/li>\n
  • Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u00ec tr\u1ebb h\u01a1n s\u1ed1 tu\u1ed1i th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, da \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n, tr\u1eafng h\u01a1n, m\u1ecbn m\u00e0ng v\u00e0 n\u1ecfn n\u00e0 do kh\u00ed h\u1eadu m\u00e1t m\u1ebb, kh\u00f4ng b\u1ee5i, kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3i xe,<\/li>\n
  • Th\u1ef1c ph\u1ea9m s\u00e1ch s\u1ebb, kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed trong l\u00e0nh, l\u00e1y xe \u00f4 t\u00f4 tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e1ng, xa l\u1ed9 \u00edt b\u1ecb ng\u1eadp n\u01b0\u1edbc, kh\u00f4ng b\u1ee5i b\u1eb7m, kh\u00f4ng \u00f4 nhi\u1ec5m.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n