{"id":453,"date":"2013-06-11T13:07:25","date_gmt":"2013-06-11T13:07:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tim-ban-bon-phuong.vietdating.us\/?p=453"},"modified":"2014-03-14T17:45:50","modified_gmt":"2014-03-14T17:45:50","slug":"cuoc-song-cua-nguoi-viet-kieu-o-my-bat-dau-the-nao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vietdating.us\/blog-vn\/cuoc-song-cua-nguoi-viet-kieu-o-my-bat-dau-the-nao\/","title":{"rendered":"Cu\u1ed9c S\u1ed1ng C\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t Ki\u1ec1u \u1ee0 M\u1ef9 B\u1eaft \u0110\u1ea7u Th\u1ebf N\u00e0o"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u1edf n\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?<\/h1>\n

Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef v\u00e0 chi\u1ebfc xe l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kho\u00e1 m\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u01a1i x\u1ee9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 hai th\u1ee9 n\u00e0y th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f2n b\u1ebf t\u1eafc\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sau b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft \u201cNg\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t s\u1ed1ng kho\u1ebb \u1edf Houston<\/em>\u201c, t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u th\u01b0 h\u1ecfi th\u0103m. Nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i \u1edf M\u1ef9 n\u00f3i chung v\u00e0 Houston n\u00f3i ri\u00eang r\u1ea5t cao, do \u0111\u00f3 d\u1ef1a theo m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 th\u1eafc m\u1eafc c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc, t\u00f4i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u00ecm t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ec3 vi\u1ebft ti\u1ebfp b\u00e0i n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

\"M\u1ed9t<\/a>
M\u1ed9t g\u00f3c th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 Houston<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Tuy r\u1eb1ng n\u1ed9i dung b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec cao xa, to l\u1edbn nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng b\u00ed quy\u1ebft l\u00e0m gi\u00e0u, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c nh\u1ecf nhoi, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 l\u1ebd c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 hay \u0111ang c\u00f3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh qua \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0y sinh s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u (75-85), ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t Nam khi t\u1edbi M\u1ef9 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed9i \u0111o\u00e0n hay nh\u00e0 th\u1edd \u0111\u1ee9ng ra b\u1ea3o l\u00e3nh h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng quy ch\u1ebf kh\u00e1 cao, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 con em nh\u1ecf d\u01b0\u1edbi 18 tu\u1ed5i. Khi \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd ch\u1eb3ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i lo l\u1eafng, c\u1ee9 t\u1eeb t\u1eeb t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u, h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ed9i nh\u1eadp, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 ch\u00ednh ph\u1ee7 lo. \u0110\u1ebfn t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc ngh\u00e8o, nhu c\u1ea7u v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f2n \u1edf m\u1ee9c t\u1ed1i thi\u1ec3u, n\u00ean ai c\u0169ng h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3, nh\u00ecn quanh ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t ai c\u0169ng ngh\u00e8o nh\u01b0 nhau, ch\u1eb3ng ai gi\u00e0u h\u01a1n ai \u0111\u1ec3 so s\u00e1nh.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u c\u0169ng v\u1eady, ph\u1ea3i \u0111i l\u00e0m m\u1edbi c\u00f3 thu nh\u1eadp trang tr\u1ea3i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa nhu c\u1ea7u v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t theo cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng l\u00ean cao.<\/p>\n

Ng\u00e0y m\u1edbi qua, ch\u1ec9 ao \u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1i thi\u1ec3u. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 th\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn, ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ngo\u1ea1i l\u1ec7, n\u00ean sau nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m h\u1ed9i nh\u1eadp, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t \u1edf h\u1ea3i ngo\u1ea1i<\/strong> \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3n x\u1ee9, hay c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n tr\u1ed9i h\u01a1n. V\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t v\u1ed1n r\u1ea5t ki\u00ean tr\u00ec ch\u1ecbu kh\u00f3, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ecf c\u00f4ng b\u1ecf c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 cho h\u1ecdc v\u1ea5n con c\u00e1i, n\u00ean sau nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m, th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9.<\/p>\n

C\u00f2n th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n m\u1edbi qua \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u01b0<\/strong> \u00a0sau n\u00e0y, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft l\u00e0 ra \u0111i theo quy ch\u1ebf di d\u00e2n, c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3o l\u00e3nh, nh\u01b0 cha m\u1eb9 b\u1ea3o l\u00e3nh cho con, anh em b\u1ea3o l\u00e3nh cho nhau, ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea3o l\u00e3nh v\u1ee3, do v\u1eady \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, th\u1eddi gian h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, v\u00e0o th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t Nam \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n h\u01a1n x\u01b0a. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t, c\u00f3 nh\u00e0 (do cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i), c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh, h\u00e0ng th\u00e1ng (hay th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng) \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e2n nh\u00e2n n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i tr\u0103m \u0111\u00f4 la, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t gi\u00e0u ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng gi\u00e0u, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00ed \u00edt c\u0169ng c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ung dung. Do \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u01b0\u1edbc v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng \u0111i ra n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u01b0\u1eddng qu\u1ed1c nh\u01b0 n\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3n h\u00ecnh l\u00e0 th\u1ea5y Vi\u1ec7t ki\u1ec1u h\u1ea3i ngo\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00eanh thang \u00e1o g\u1ea5m v\u1ec1 l\u00e0ng.<\/p>\n

V\u1edbi suy ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi qua t\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y, thi\u1ebfu ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c t\u1ed1i thi\u1ec3u c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea3i ngo\u1ea1i, khi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n kh\u00f4ng l\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch \u1ee9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn suy s\u1ee5p tinh th\u1ea7n, b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eafc ch\u00ed, than th\u00e2n tr\u00e1ch ph\u1eadn, c\u00f3 khi o\u00e1n tr\u00e1ch c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ea3o tr\u1ee3 h\u1ecd sang, v\u00ec sao gi\u00e0u th\u1ebf m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng lo cho h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n. Th\u00e0nh ra c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3o tr\u1ee3 l\u1eabn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3o tr\u1ee3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e2m v\u00e0o c\u1ea3nh kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n b\u1ee9t r\u1ee9t, ti\u1ebfn tho\u00e1i l\u01b0\u1ee1ng nan, s\u1ee9t m\u1ebb t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m.<\/p>\n

\u1ede b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i xin \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi, m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua, n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n t\u00e1i \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u01b0 \u1edf m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc xa l\u1ea1, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 t\u1eeb ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t.<\/p>\n

Sau khi \u0111\u1eb7t ch\u00e2n \u0111\u1ebfn x\u1ee9 M\u1ef9, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n (ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3o tr\u1ee3) s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t v\u00e0i ng\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0a b\u1ea1n \u0111i l\u00e0m gi\u1ea5y t\u1edd, h\u1ee3p th\u1ee9c ho\u00e1 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u1edf M\u1ef9<\/strong>, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebb c\u0103n c\u01b0\u1edbc, th\u1ebb y t\u1ebf, xin nh\u1eadp h\u1ecdc cho b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh ph\u1ee7:<\/strong><\/p>\n

– C\u00e1c ch\u00e1u d\u01b0\u1edbi 18 tu\u1ed5i s\u1ebd v\u00e0o h\u1ecdc tr\u01b0\u1eddng ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 trung h\u1ecdc g\u1ea7n nh\u00e0. C\u00f3 xe bus \u0111\u01b0a r\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i v\u1ec1 hai b\u1eadn, \u0103n tr\u01b0a mi\u1ec5n ph\u00ed \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho v\u00e0o l\u1edbp \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 Anh ng\u1eef. (Nh\u1edb \u0111em theo \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 h\u1ecdc b\u1ea1 \u1edf b\u00ean Vi\u1ec7t Nam, v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n d\u1ecbch sang ti\u1ebfng Anh)<\/p>\n

– C\u00e1c ch\u00e1u tr\u00ean 18 tu\u1ed5i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ghi danh nh\u1eadp h\u1ecdc \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng cao \u0111\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecba ph\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1edbi t\u00ean g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 Community College. \u1ede \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc ti\u1ebfng Anh v\u00e0 ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec1 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m k\u1ebf sinh s\u1ed1ng trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. T\u00f9y theo s\u1edf th\u00edch v\u00e0 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed9, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n ti\u1ebfp l\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc 4 n\u0103m \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y b\u1eb1ng c\u1eed nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 thu nh\u1eadp, ho\u1eb7c thu nh\u1eadp th\u1ea5p, th\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 mi\u1ec5n ph\u00ed. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ai c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00ednh ph\u1ee7 t\u00e0i tr\u1ee3 (xin h\u1ecdc b\u1ed5ng<\/strong>), \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i chung cho m\u1ecdi c\u00f4ng d\u00e2n M\u1ef9.<\/p>\n

Ngo\u00e0i ti\u1ec1n h\u1ecdc ph\u00ed, s\u00e1ch v\u1edf do ch\u00ednh ph\u1ee7 gi\u00fap, mi\u1ec5n ho\u00e0n tr\u1ea3, n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1ed9p \u0111\u01a1n vay ti\u1ec1n t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh ph\u1ee7, gi\u00fap h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 sinh s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc to\u00e0n th\u1eddi gian.<\/p>\n

– Con n\u00edt d\u01b0\u1edbi 18 tu\u1ed5i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 tr\u00ean 65 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ee3 c\u1ea5p y t\u1ebf to\u00e0n ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh ph\u1ee7 (medicaid), v\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xin th\u00eam \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c food stamps (tr\u1ee3 c\u1ea5p th\u1ef1c ph\u1ea9m).<\/p>\n

– Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean 18 tu\u1ed5i ho\u1eb7c d\u01b0\u1edbi 65 tu\u1ed5i, thu nh\u1eadp th\u1ea5p s\u1ebd xin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ee3 c\u1ea5p y t\u1ebf b\u00e1n ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh ph\u1ee7, nh\u01b0 \u1edf Texas c\u00f3 ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh Gold card m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t m\u00ecnh hay g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 th\u1ebb v\u00e0ng. M\u1ed7i ti\u1ec3u bang c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh v\u00e0 t\u00ean g\u1ecdi kh\u00e1c nhau. (Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi nh\u1eadp c\u01b0, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00ec ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 thu nh\u1eadp).<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3o tr\u1ee3, ho\u1eb7c cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n \u1edf t\u1ea1m nh\u00e0 h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian ng\u1eafn cho \u0111\u1ee1 t\u1ed1n k\u00e9m, ho\u1eb7c t\u00ecm m\u01b0\u1edbn d\u00f9m b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u0103n nh\u00e0 (m\u1eafc r\u1ebb t\u00f9y theo kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng) v\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2y s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh gian kh\u1ed5, t\u1ef1 t\u00fac t\u1ef1 c\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 v\u1ed1n mang theo, c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i qu\u1eabn b\u00e1ch, th\u00ec l\u00fac n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n n\u00ean tranh th\u1ee7 h\u1ecdc ti\u1ebfng Anh, cho d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u, nh\u01b0ng \u00edt nh\u1ea5t nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, n\u00f3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fat \u00edt \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfm vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m, v\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng l\u1ebd h\u1ecd m\u01b0\u1edbn b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o l\u00e0m, c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i m\u01b0\u1edbn th\u00eam ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng d\u1ecbch?<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea5p b\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc l\u00e1i xe. Nh\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n ki\u1ebfm mua m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc xe, m\u1edbi c\u0169 m\u1eafc r\u1ebb t\u00f9y kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c (n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi m\u01b0\u1ee3n, sau n\u00e0y s\u1ebd ho\u00e0n tr\u1ea3). Qu\u1ef9 th\u1eddi gian \u1edf n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i r\u1ea5t eo h\u1eb9p, kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u00f3n b\u1ea1n m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y \u0111i v\u00e0 v\u1ec1.<\/p>\n

Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef v\u00e0 chi\u1ebfc xe l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kho\u00e1 m\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 hai th\u1ee9 n\u00e0y th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f2n b\u1ebf t\u1eafc.<\/p>\n

Tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n mang theo, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 v\u00f4 s\u1ea3n, th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea7n ch\u1edd. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m n\u00e0o (\u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 l\u01b0\u01a1ng thi\u1ec7n), d\u00f9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m tay ch\u00e2n n\u1eb7ng nh\u1ecdc, nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ch\u1ea5t x\u00e1m, \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n trang tr\u1ea3i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3o tr\u1ee3, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ea7u trong kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn ph\u1ea3i nu\u00f4i b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n. Ho\u1eb7c d\u00f9 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n, \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng, v\u00ec s\u1ed1 ph\u00ed n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 con s\u1ed1 nh\u1ecf.<\/p>\n

C\u00f2n vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m \u1edf x\u1ee9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi \u1edf \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0y s\u1ebd nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? C\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u, n\u00e0y nh\u00e9:<\/p>\n

C\u1ee9 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi nh\u1eadp c\u01b0 \u0111i xin vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m: kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i, kh\u00f4ng nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee7 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i g\u00ec, kinh nghi\u1ec7m ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3, \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 tu\u1ed5i, s\u1ee9c kho\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n sung m\u00e3n\u2026 T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 con s\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 c\u00f2n \u0111ang ch\u1eadp ch\u1eefng t\u1eadp \u0111i, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec, ngo\u00e0i nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng ai mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m m\u1edbi t\u1edbi tay m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

V\u1eady th\u00ec sao? C\u00f3 hai tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p:<\/p>\n

1. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9ng, t\u1ef1 tin:<\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u00ec t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft, v\u1edbi t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e2y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi. M\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian n\u1eefa, khi quen cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, r\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng x\u00e1, ti\u1ebfng Anh gi\u1ecfi, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m kh\u00e1 h\u01a1n, h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

V\u1edbi t\u00f4i, \u0111\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c con. T\u00f4i tin v\u1edbi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, t\u00f4i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

2. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i:<\/strong><\/p>\n

– L\u1ee1 \u00f4m m\u1ed9t \u1ea3o m\u1ed9ng thi\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/p>\n

– T\u1eebng nghe cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u00ean M\u1ef9 v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u00ecnh dung \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

– \u1ede Vi\u1ec7t Nam t\u00f4i s\u01b0\u1edbng g\u1ea5p m\u1ea5y l\u1ea7n, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u0169 nh\u00e0n h\u1ea1, c\u00f3 nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean, t\u1ed9i g\u00ec. Ti\u1ebfng l\u00e0 qua M\u1ef9 m\u00e0 t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n n\u1eb7ng nh\u1ecdc, nh\u01b0 l\u00e0m ti\u1ec7m ph\u1edf, l\u00e0m ch\u1ee3, gi\u1eef con n\u00edt.<\/p>\n

– Nh\u00ecn chung quanh, th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi qua tr\u01b0\u1edbc gi\u00e0u c\u00f3, trong khi t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c tay ch\u00e2n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, th\u1eadt l\u00e0 m\u1ea5t m\u1eb7t, bi\u1ebft v\u1eady t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111i.<\/p>\n

Hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n n\u1eb1ng n\u1eb7c \u0111\u00f2i quay v\u1ec1 Vi\u1ec7t Nam! \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111i hay \u1edf \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n. Ngo\u00e0i chuy\u1ec7n t\u1ed1n k\u00e9m ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, th\u1eddi gi\u1edd, c\u00f2n c\u00f3 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n. Trong khu\u00f4n kh\u1ed5 b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft ng\u1eafn n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o gi\u00fap cho b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t tha h\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1eeb nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a n\u00ean d\u00f9 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u1eafn r\u0103ng d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n, ki\u00ean quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ea1p \u0111\u1ed5 m\u1ecdi tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i. Nh\u1edd v\u1eady, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i gian kh\u1ed5 h\u1ecd tr\u1ea3i qua, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n, g\u1ea5p v\u1ea1n l\u1ea7n ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

C\u00f2n hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i th\u1ebf h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi, c\u00f3 ch\u00fat ti\u1ec1n mang theo. C\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng Vi\u1ec7t Nam h\u1ea3i ngo\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e3 v\u1eefng m\u1ea1nh. V\u1ec1 tinh th\u1ea7n, b\u1edbt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u01a1 v\u01a1 l\u1ea1c l\u00f5ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, th\u1eddi n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u, vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m thay th\u1ebf b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i hy v\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3 gi\u00e0u sang c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c cho b\u1ea1n d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n, ch\u1ee9 \u0111\u1eebng l\u1ea5y \u0111\u00f3 so s\u00e1nh, ph\u00e2n b\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i thay v\u00ec d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n ti\u1ebfn b\u01b0\u1edbc, b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u1ea5t ch\u00ed, than th\u00e2n tr\u00e1ch ph\u1eadn, d\u00f9ng \u00e1nh m\u1eaft cay \u0111\u1eafng nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n sinh quan sai l\u1ea7m n\u00e0y. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7n gi\u1edd, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u, kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec b\u1ea1n b\u00e2y gi\u1edd. Hay c\u00f3 khi c\u00f2n kh\u1ed5 h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n b\u00e2y gi\u1edd n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

C\u00f2n n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc xong b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y, \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 ch\u00fat kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m, th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh m\u00ecnh \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t Nam t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, th\u00ec t\u00f4i khuy\u00ean b\u1ea1n n\u00ean \u1edf l\u1ea1i n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1eebng \u0111i l\u00e0m chi cho ph\u00ed th\u00ec gi\u1edd, t\u1ed1n ti\u1ec1n v\u00e0 t\u1ed1n c\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3o tr\u1ee3.<\/p>\n

N\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9 ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd t\u1ef1 phong \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0y l\u00e0 thi\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ea1i \u0111a s\u1ed1 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, \u01b0u \u00e1i m\u1ebfn t\u1eb7ng cho n\u00f3 m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. Thi\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng hay \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c l\u00e0 do t\u1eebng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, \u0111\u1eebng th\u1ea7n th\u00e1nh ho\u00e1 qu\u00e1, \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n

Theo quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang t\u00f4i, \u0111\u1ea5t M\u1ef9 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 thi\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch huy\u1ec5n ho\u1eb7c, xa x\u00f4i. \u0110\u1ea5t M\u1ef9 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 \u01b0u, c\u00f3 khuy\u1ebft, v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u m\u1eb7t t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi n\u01b0\u1edbc kh\u00e1c. C\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1u t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh, n\u01a1i ch\u1ed1n n\u00e0y cho b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn th\u00e2n. Ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu n\u1eafm l\u1ea5y hay kh\u00f4ng m\u00e0 th\u00f4i!<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u00fang trong m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea1m vi nh\u1ecf n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p m\u00ecnh, c\u1ee9 xem nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n t\u1ea7m ph\u00e0o. C\u00e1m \u01a1n b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

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