{"id":230,"date":"2013-02-14T16:27:13","date_gmt":"2013-02-14T16:27:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tim-ban-bon-phuong.vietdating.us\/?p=230"},"modified":"2013-02-14T16:27:13","modified_gmt":"2013-02-14T16:27:13","slug":"viet-kieu-ve-vietnam-lay-vo-la-mot-cach-can-bang-gioi-tinh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vietdating.us\/blog-vn\/viet-kieu-ve-vietnam-lay-vo-la-mot-cach-can-bang-gioi-tinh\/","title":{"rendered":"Vi\u1ec7t ki\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 Vietnam l\u1ea5y v\u1ee3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Th\u00e1i C\u1ea9m H\u01b0ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong b\u1ea3y gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 ng\u00e0nh X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc g\u1ed1c Vi\u1ec7t \u1edf M\u1ef9. Hi\u1ec7n \u00f4ng v\u1eabn \u0111i v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7n gi\u1eefa Vi\u1ec7t Nam v\u00e0 M\u1ef9 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00f4ng tr\u00ecnh nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u th\u1ee9 ba: Ti\u1ec1n g\u1eedi c\u1ee7a Vi\u1ec7t ki\u1ec1u c\u00f3 thu nh\u1eadp th\u1ea5p trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh kinh t\u1ebf to\u00e0n c\u1ea7u m\u1edbi. M\u1eddi nghe cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n th\u00e2n t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_45\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-45\" style=\"width: 150px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/vietdating.us\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-45\" alt=\"ki\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 n\u01b0\u1edbc l\u1ea5y v\u1ee3 Vietnam\" src=\"https:\/\/tim-ban-bon-phuong.vietdating.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/10\/22.gif\" width=\"150\" height=\"190\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-45\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">ki\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 n\u01b0\u1edbc l\u1ea5y v\u1ee3 Vietnam<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Th\u00e1i C\u1ea9m H\u01b0ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong b\u1ea3y gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 ng\u00e0nh X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc g\u1ed1c Vi\u1ec7t \u1edf M\u1ef9. Sinh n\u0103m 1976 t\u1ea1i \u0110\u1ed3ng Th\u00e1p, s\u00e1u tu\u1ed5i theo gia \u0111\u00ecnh sang M\u1ef9, n\u0103m 16 tu\u1ed5i, anh nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc b\u1ed5ng to\u00e0n ph\u1ea7n ng\u00e0nh X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Berkeley (California) v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn n\u0103m 25 tu\u1ed5i b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng lu\u1eadn \u00e1n ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i Vi\u1ec7t ki\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 n\u01b0\u1edbc k\u1ebft h\u00f4n trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh to\u00e0n c\u1ea7u h\u00f3a. M\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n uy t\u00edn c\u1ee7a M\u1ef9 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb anh vi\u1ebft l\u1ea1i lu\u1eadn \u00e1n n\u00e0y th\u00e0nh s\u00e1ch v\u00e0 in v\u1edbi s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng 300 ng\u00e0n b\u1ea3n. C\u00f4ng tr\u00ecnh nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u th\u1ee9 hai v\u1ec1 Vi\u1ec7t Nam mang t\u00ean Gia \u0111\u00ecnh trong th\u1eddi to\u00e0n c\u1ea7u h\u00f3a c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c anh vi\u1ebft l\u1ea1i th\u00e0nh s\u00e1ch v\u00e0 s\u1ebd ra m\u1eaft v\u00e0o th\u00e1ng 5 t\u1edbi.<\/p>\n<p>Th\u00e1i C\u1ea9m H\u01b0ng hi\u1ec7n \u0111ang l\u00e0 Tr\u01b0\u1edfng khoa X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc ki\u00eam Gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c Vi\u1ec7n nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u Ch\u00e2u \u00c1 c\u1ee7a Tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Pomona (th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 Claremont, bang California). \u0110\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng tr\u00ecnh nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u tr\u00ean, anh v\u00e0 nh\u00f3m c\u1ed9ng s\u1ef1 12 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c r\u1ea5t t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong su\u1ed1t h\u01a1n 10 n\u0103m qua. B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n anh \u0111\u00e3 v\u1ec1 Vi\u1ec7t Nam g\u1ea7n 80 l\u1ea7n, th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n h\u00e0ng tr\u0103m cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi c\u00e1c c\u00f4 d\u00e2u \u0111ang ch\u1edd b\u1ea3o l\u00e3nh \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t Nam v\u00e0 ch\u00fa r\u1ec3 \u1edf M\u1ef9.<\/p>\n<p>Hi\u1ec7n Th\u00e1i C\u1ea9m H\u01b0ng v\u1eabn \u0111i v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7n gi\u1eefa Vi\u1ec7t Nam v\u00e0 M\u1ef9 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00f4ng tr\u00ecnh nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u th\u1ee9 ba: Ti\u1ec1n g\u1eedi c\u1ee7a Vi\u1ec7t ki\u1ec1u c\u00f3 thu nh\u1eadp th\u1ea5p trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh kinh t\u1ebf to\u00e0n c\u1ea7u m\u1edbi. Trong d\u1ecbp v\u1ec1 n\u01b0\u1edbc l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y, anh \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e0nh cho Doanh nh\u00e2n S\u00e0i G\u00f2n Cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n<p>Sang M\u1ef9 khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111i h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 n\u0103m 16 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc b\u1ed5ng t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc danh ti\u1ebfng, ch\u1eafc anh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n t\u1eadp trung cho vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh?<\/p>\n<p>T\u00f4i l\u00e0 con th\u1ee9 t\u01b0 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 n\u0103m anh ch\u1ecb em. Cha t\u00f4i v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 k\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c con. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng trong khu nh\u00e0 m\u00e0 Ch\u00ednh ph\u1ee7 M\u1ef9 d\u00e0nh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi nh\u1eadp c\u01b0, n\u01a1i \u0111a s\u1ed1 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi da \u0111en. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 n\u01a1i t\u00f4i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean trong \u0111\u1eddi: c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i da \u0111en l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i h\u01a1n t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p. S\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu th\u1ed1n v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t h\u1ecdc d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e3i v\u00e3, b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c tri\u1ec1n mi\u00ean.<\/p>\n<p>Do kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed gia \u0111\u00ecnh lu\u00f4n c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng nh\u01b0ng ri\u00eang t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i th\u00edch chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2, th\u00edch chia s\u1ebb n\u00ean c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n t\u1eeb r\u1ea5t s\u1edbm. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n da tr\u1eafng con nh\u00e0 kh\u00e1 gi\u1ea3, tr\u00ed th\u1ee9c trong v\u00f9ng. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u00e0 y\u00eau m\u1ebfn t\u00f4i. Nh\u1edd nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u01a1i v\u00e0 tham gia v\u00e0o c\u00e1c d\u1ecbp l\u1ec5, c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u0103n h\u00f3a c\u1ee7a t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp trung l\u01b0u trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i M\u1ef9, t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi t\u01b0\u01a1i s\u00e1ng b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i gia \u0111\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch t\u00f4i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng v\u01b0\u01a1n l\u00ean. T\u00f4i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb duy nh\u1ea5t trong nh\u00e0 th\u00edch h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n<p>N\u0103m t\u00f4i 12 tu\u1ed5i th\u00ec gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00e0ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n h\u01a1n. Cha t\u00f4i b\u1eaft t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c cho \u00f4ng ch\u00fa h\u1ecd \u1edf ch\u1ee3 tr\u1eddi. M\u1ed7i th\u1ee9 B\u1ea3y, Ch\u1ee7 nh\u1eadt, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1eeb 6 gi\u1edd s\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eadn khuya. C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c b\u1ed1c d\u1ee1 h\u00e0ng h\u00f3a n\u1eb7ng nh\u1ecdc, nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n th\u1eddi gian vui ch\u01a1i n\u00ean t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t \u1ea5m \u1ee9c. T\u1eeb l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng con d\u01b0\u1eddng duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 tho\u00e1t ra kh\u1ecfi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 h\u1ecdc th\u1eadt gi\u1ecfi. V\u1eady l\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ecdc h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi khao kh\u00e1t tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00e0ng s\u1edbm c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t.<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u1ea1n ng\u1eef c\u00f3 c\u00e2u \u201cG\u1ed7 t\u1ed1t kh\u00f4ng m\u1ecdc tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea5t ph\u00ec nhi\u00eau\u201d, xem ra \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 v\u1ebb \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a anh?<\/p>\n<p>N\u0103m 15 tu\u1ed5i, t\u00f4i r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi gia \u0111\u00ecnh khi t\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eb1ng ba c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m th\u00eam m\u1ed9t l\u00fac, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 tr\u1ef1c \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i \u1edf m\u1ed9t ti\u1ec7m b\u00e1n thu\u1ed1c, ph\u1ee5 vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng quy ho\u1ea1ch v\u00e0 b\u00e1n v\u00e0ng t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t ti\u1ec7m v\u00e0ng d\u00e0nh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi da \u0111en. C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u00e0ng v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 th\u00ec t\u00f4i c\u00e0ng c\u1ed1 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1edbm ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t s\u1ef1 v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 \u0111\u00f3. Do ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh th\u00fac \u00e9p, t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung cao \u0111\u1ed9. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i t\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1eddng lu\u00f4n t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n l\u1ea1c quan v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. N\u0103m 16 tu\u1ed5i t\u00f4i \u0111o\u1ea1t gi\u1ea3i nh\u00ec m\u00f4n To\u00e1n, gi\u1ea3i nh\u1ea5t m\u00f4n h\u00f9ng bi\u1ec7n to\u00e0n bang Mississipi v\u00e0 gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc b\u1ed5ng to\u00e0n ph\u1ea7n t\u1ea1i \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Berkeley. Khi \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i kh\u00e1 \u0111\u1eafn \u0111o, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft n\u00ean theo ng\u00e0nh to\u00e1n hay ng\u00e0nh h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Sau khi c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc, t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra \u0111am m\u00ea l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u1ec1 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u00ean quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u1ecdn x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ea1i k\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1 v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh xu\u1ea5t th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1eafc c\u1ee1, t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o hay cay \u0111\u1eafng, m\u00e0 coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n t\u1ea1o n\u00ean t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4i nh\u01b0 ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng quan tr\u1ecdng, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. Trong t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c giai \u0111o\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh, t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean. Qua h\u1ecd, t\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng, nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n s\u1edbm mu\u1ed9n r\u1ed3i s\u1ebd mang l\u1ea1i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u1edf M\u1ef9 c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn t\u1eadn t\u00e2m v\u00e0 gi\u1ecfi ngh\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap t\u00f4i ph\u00e1t huy \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ebft n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft n\u0103m 19 tu\u1ed5i anh \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e1ch bal\u00f4 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh \u0111i du l\u1ecbch v\u00f2ng quanh th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 chu\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a anh \u0111\u00e3 s\u1edbm k\u1ebft th\u00fac v\u00e0 kh\u00e1t khao v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u01b0\u01a1i s\u00e1ng c\u0169ng s\u1edbm th\u00e0nh hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c?<\/p>\n<p>H\u1ecdc b\u1ed5ng c\u1ee7a Tr\u01b0\u1eddng Berkeley \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i chuy\u00ean t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m th\u00eam. N\u0103m 1996, t\u00f4i t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111i du l\u1ecbch qua 52 n\u01b0\u1edbc \u1edf n\u0103m ch\u00e2u l\u1ee5c v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 B\u1eafc c\u1ef1c b\u1eb1ng t\u00e1m ng\u00e0n USD d\u00e0nh d\u1ee5m t\u1eeb h\u1ecdc b\u1ed5ng. Chuy\u1ebfn \u0111i k\u00e9o d\u00e0i g\u1ea7n t\u00e1m th\u00e1ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m t\u1ed1i \u0111a. T\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 n\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00e2u Phi nh\u01b0 Mozambique, m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 ti\u00eau c\u00f3 hai USD cho vi\u1ec7c \u0103n \u1edf. Sau chuy\u1ebfn \u0111i n\u00e0y t\u00f4i r\u00fat ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hai \u0111i\u1ec1u. Th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u1edbi m\u1ee9c v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1i thi\u1ec3u, b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng l\u00e0 t\u1ea1i ch\u00e2u Phi, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0103n m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn vui v\u1ebb, h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean. Th\u1ee9 hai, M\u1ef9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 trung t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u00ec c\u00f2n c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u n\u01a1i kh\u00e1c ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 h\u01a1n, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1eadm \u0111\u00e0 m\u00e0u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n<p>Vi\u1ec7t Nam l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ebfn trong chuy\u1ebfn \u0111i \u0111\u00f3. Trong m\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u00e0y v\u1ec1 n\u01b0\u1edbc, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i t\u1eeb Sapa \u0111\u1ebfn C\u00e0 Mau b\u1eb1ng xe bu\u00fdt v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean d\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng. C\u0169ng trong d\u1ecbp v\u1ec1 n\u01b0\u1edbc l\u1ea7n \u1ea5y, t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t li\u00ean l\u1ea1c t\u1eeb n\u0103m b\u1ed1n tu\u1ed5i. Chuy\u1ebfn \u0111i n\u00e0y c\u00f2n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 sau s\u1ebd g\u1eafn li\u1ec1n v\u1edbi Vi\u1ec7t Nam. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc b\u1ed5ng cao h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Berkeley v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ch\u00e2u Phi c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c duy\u1ec7t. Khi \u0111\u1ed5i h\u01b0\u1edbng nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u, t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c c\u00e1c gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 trong khoa v\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eafm \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh chuy\u00ean gia X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 ch\u00e2u Phi. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, sau khi nghe t\u00f4i tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y c\u1eb7n k\u1ebd v\u1ec1 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t Nam, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u vui v\u1ebb t\u00e1n th\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u1ec9 sau m\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u00e0y v\u1ec1 n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u00e0 anh \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i lu\u1eadn \u00e1n ti\u1ebfn s\u0129. V\u1eady anh ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 Vi\u1ec7t Nam ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n l\u00e0 do \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 l\u00e0m khoa h\u1ecdc hay c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n?<\/p>\n<p>Trong nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y \u1edf TP. H\u1ed3 Ch\u00ed Minh, c\u00f3 l\u1ea7n, khi ng\u1ed3i trong qu\u00e1n c\u00e0 ph\u00ea, t\u00f4i g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0m quen. H\u1ecd h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 Vi\u1ec7t Nam \u0111\u1ec3 c\u01b0\u1edbi v\u1ee3 hay \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm \u201cone night relationship\u201d (t\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00eam). T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean v\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3 ch\u01b0a h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 \u00fd ni\u1ec7m g\u00ec v\u1ec1 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng Vi\u1ec7t ki\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 n\u01b0\u1edbc l\u1ea5y v\u1ee3 hay h\u1eb9n h\u00f2. M\u00e1u ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p tr\u1ed7i d\u1eady, t\u00f4i h\u1ecfi h\u1ecd nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u xung quanh ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u. Ngo\u00e0i ra, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ec1 n\u01b0\u1edbc th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 th\u0103m m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u th\u00eam v\u1ec1 Vi\u1ec7t Nam. Th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t th\u00edch cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y.<\/p>\n<p>Khi \u0111\u00f3 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 anh m\u1edbi h\u01a1n 20 tu\u1ed5i, ti\u1ebfng Vi\u1ec7t ch\u01b0a th\u1eadt tr\u00f4i ch\u1ea3y, c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t Nam c\u0169ng ch\u01b0a nhi\u1ec1u, v\u1eady c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a anh di\u1ec5n ra nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u1ec1 t\u00e0i Vi\u1ec7t ki\u1ec1u thu nh\u1eadp th\u1ea5p v\u1ec1 n\u01b0\u1edbc l\u1ea5y v\u1ee3 nhanh ch\u00f3ng t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u1ef9 t\u00e0i tr\u1ee3. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m c\u1ed9ng s\u1ef1 12 ng\u01b0\u1eddi, n\u0103m ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf M\u1ef9, b\u1ea3y ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t Nam gi\u00fap t\u00f4i thu th\u1eadp th\u00f4ng tin, ph\u00e2n t\u00edch d\u1eef li\u1ec7u. \u0110\u1ecba b\u00e0n nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 \u1edf \u0110\u1ed3ng b\u1eb1ng s\u00f4ng C\u1eedu Long, \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u l\u00e0 c\u00e1c c\u00f4 d\u00e2u \u0111ang \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t Nam ch\u1edd b\u1ea3o l\u00e3nh v\u00e0 ch\u00fa r\u1ec3 \u0111ang \u1edf M\u1ef9. V\u1edbi s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a C\u1ee5c Di d\u00e2n M\u1ef9, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 danh s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111ang l\u00e0m th\u1ee7 t\u1ee5c nh\u1eadp c\u01b0. Vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u00f3 di\u1ec5n ra kh\u00e1 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n hay g\u1eedi th\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc, m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1eb3ng nh\u00e0 h\u1ecd, t\u1ef1 gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c c\u00f4 d\u00e2u \u0111\u1ec1u ni\u1ec1m n\u1edf ti\u1ebfp chuy\u1ec7n. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u1edf M\u1ef9, \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ki\u1ec3u ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y\u2026 v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh cung c\u1ea5p cho t\u00f4i s\u1ed1 \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i, \u0111\u1ecba ch\u1ec9 c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng h\u1ecd \u1edf M\u1ef9 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n khi tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 M\u1ef9. C\u00e0ng l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng th\u1ea5y m\u00ea. V\u1edbi t\u00f4i, m\u1ed7i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e1ng l\u1eafng nghe, d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi r\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng hay nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt ch\u00ednh thu\u1ed9c t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp \u00edt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fa \u00fd trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n<p>Tr\u00e1i v\u1edbi c\u00e2u \u201cv\u1ea1n s\u1ef1 kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u nan\u201d, vi\u1ec7c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a anh l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u kh\u00e1 su\u00f4n s\u1ebb?<\/p>\n<p>Ph\u1ea7n kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u1ea5t trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh thu th\u1eadp d\u1eef li\u1ec7u l\u00e0 kh\u00e2u ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n c\u00e1c ch\u00fa r\u1ec3 Vi\u1ec7t ki\u1ec1u. D\u00f9 r\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ee3 \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t Nam g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1ec1 t\u00f4i nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 40% s\u1ed1 ch\u00fa r\u1ec3 trong danh s\u00e1ch m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. L\u00fd do l\u00e0 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng nam Vi\u1ec7t ki\u1ec1u thu nh\u1eadp th\u1ea5p \u00edt nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec1u m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m v\u1ec1 v\u1ecb tr\u00ed x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea5t M\u1ef9 n\u00ean r\u1ea5t ng\u1ea1i n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n th\u00ec \u0111a s\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec1 ph\u00f2ng v\u00e0 t\u1ecf ra kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi t\u00f4i \u2013 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u m\u00e0 h\u1ecd cho r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng qu\u00e1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t so v\u1edbi h\u1ecd. T\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ea3i k\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi sau khi nghe t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u v\u1ec1 ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p li\u1ec1n h\u1ecfi n\u0103m r\u1ed3i t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 Vi\u1ec7t Nam bao nhi\u00eau l\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng Vi\u1ec7t ki\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ea3i r\u1ea5t ch\u1eaft b\u00f3p \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ed7i n\u0103m c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u00ean \u0111\u1eafn \u0111o kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft n\u00ean tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi th\u1eadt l\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 v\u1ec1 Vi\u1ec7t Nam ba l\u1ea7n hay n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i l\u00e0 \u00edt h\u01a1n. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ee9ng \u1edf g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc, t\u00f4i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i trung th\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 anh ta bi\u1ebft t\u00f4i nghi\u00eam t\u00fac v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Nghe xong, anh ta li\u1ec1n n\u1ed5i n\u00f3ng v\u00e0 l\u1edbn ti\u1ebfng r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i v\u00e0 anh ta ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec chung, ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i, r\u1ed3i m\u1eddi t\u00f4i r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0 ngay, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 cho t\u00f4i gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch ti\u1ebfng n\u00e0o!<\/p>\n<p>D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c c\u00f4 d\u00e2u \u0111\u1ec1u \u00edt nhi\u1ec1u h\u00e1o h\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 ch\u00e2n tr\u1eddi m\u1edbi trong khi \u0111a s\u1ed1 ch\u00fa r\u1ec3 m\u00e0 anh ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 tin v\u1ec1 v\u1ecb tr\u00ed x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u1edf M\u1ef9. Theo nh\u1eefng g\u00ec anh quan s\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n xuy\u00ean l\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ecba n\u00e0y c\u00f3 mang l\u1ea1i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac cho hai b\u00ean kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, xu h\u01b0\u1edbng k\u1ebft h\u00f4n n\u00e0y kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng m\u1ea5t c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh trong c\u1ea3 hai nh\u00f3m x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. T\u1ea1i Vi\u1ec7t Nam, chi\u1ebfn tranh v\u00e0 v\u01b0\u1ee3t bi\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t \u0111i m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng nam thanh ni\u00ean \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3 n\u00ean trong th\u1eadp ni\u00ean 1990, c\u1ee9 100 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i k\u1ebft h\u00f4n th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 92 nam gi\u1edbi. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea1i c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t \u1edf M\u1ef9, nam gi\u1edbi l\u1ea1i chi\u1ebfm t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 cao h\u01a1n h\u1eb3n so v\u1edbi n\u1eef gi\u1edbi, v\u00ec v\u1eady m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 thu nh\u1eadp th\u1ea5p c\u00f3 \u00edt c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi. C\u00f2n vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n n\u00e0y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c n\u00e0o l\u00e0 t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu. M\u1ed9t hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00e1 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn l\u00e0 c\u00e1c c\u00f4 d\u00e2u c\u00f3 h\u1ecdc th\u1ee9c th\u01b0\u1eddng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng Vi\u1ec7t ki\u1ec1u sau m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i s\u1ed1ng \u1edf M\u1ef9 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u1ec1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef tho\u00e1ng h\u01a1n \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng Vi\u1ec7t Nam.<\/p>\n<p>Trong khi \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eefng Vi\u1ec7t ki\u1ec1u lao \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1edbi thu nh\u1eadp th\u1ea5p th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 ph\u1ea1m vi giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi kh\u00e1 h\u1eb9p. Suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e1c l\u1edbp cha anh c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0i th\u1eadp ni\u00ean. Khi t\u00ecm v\u1ee3 trong n\u01b0\u1edbc, h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eafm \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00f3 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u1ed1t, c\u00f3 h\u1ecdc th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 v\u1eabn mong \u0111\u1ee3i m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 h\u1ecdc hi\u1ec7n nay \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t Nam \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1edbc r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, \u0111a s\u1ed1 khi g\u1eb7p nhau \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi nhau th\u00ec m\u1edbi d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng n\u00e0y s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eed th\u00e1ch v\u00ec c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t trong k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Cho \u0111\u1ebfn nay, t\u00f4i v\u1eabn gi\u1eef li\u00ean l\u1ea1c v\u1edbi 30% s\u1ed1 c\u1eb7p m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n, trong s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e3 th\u00edch \u1ee9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi nhau v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00e3 ho\u1eb7c \u0111ang chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb ly h\u00f4n.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u1ee9ng \u1edf g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng xa qu\u00ea. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng Vi\u1ec7t ki\u1ec1u thu nh\u1eadp th\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, bu\u1ed3n t\u1ebb n\u00ean sau khi c\u01b0\u1edbi v\u1ee3, h\u1ecd d\u00e0nh r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1n \u0111\u00e1p. M\u1ed9t Vi\u1ec7t ki\u1ec1u k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng trong th\u1eddi gian l\u00e0m th\u1ee7 t\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0a v\u1ee3 sang M\u1ef9, ng\u00e0y ng\u00e0y anh \u0111\u1ec1u trang tr\u00ed, ch\u0103m ch\u00fat cho c\u0103n h\u1ed9 nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n mong \u0111\u1ee3i gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat \u0111o\u00e0n t\u1ee5. Ng\u00e0y anh ra s\u00e2n bay \u0111\u00f3n v\u1ee3, tr\u00e1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 vui m\u1eebng c\u1ee7a anh, c\u00f4 v\u1ee3 t\u1ecf v\u1ebb kh\u00e1 h\u1edd h\u1eefng r\u1ed3i trong l\u00fac anh \u0111i v\u1ec7 sinh, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u01b0a c\u00f4 \u0111i m\u1ea5t!<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft lu\u1eadn v\u0103n ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 c\u1ee7a anh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00ednh anh vi\u1ebft l\u1ea1i th\u00e0nh s\u00e1ch v\u1edbi t\u1ef1a \u0111\u1ec1 For Better or for Worse v\u00e0 in v\u1edbi s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng 300 ng\u00e0n cu\u1ed1n v\u00e0o n\u0103m 2007. Anh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho bi\u1ebft ai l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u1ea5y?<\/p>\n<p>Ngay t\u1eeb khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0m lu\u1eadn v\u0103n, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng vi\u1ebft nh\u01b0 vi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch, sao cho v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o t\u00ednh khoa h\u1ecdc, v\u1eeba th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng. Rutgers l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n uy t\u00edn v\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m marketing r\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00e0 xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n n\u00e0y t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c chuy\u1ebfn di\u1ec5n thuy\u1ebft t\u1edbi 26 n\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1ea1i h\u01a1n 100 th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch. Hi\u1ec7n nay For Better or for Worse l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn d\u00e0nh cho nh\u1eefng ai mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i Vi\u1ec7t Nam \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea1i. Global Families: A Critical Assessment of the Field l\u00e0 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch th\u1ee9 hai c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh tr\u1ebb \u1edf TP. H\u1ed3 Ch\u00ed Minh, s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n v\u00e0o th\u00e1ng 5 t\u1edbi v\u1edbi s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng 250 ng\u00e0n cu\u1ed1n in d\u1ea7n trong ba n\u0103m.<\/p>\n<p>Anh c\u00f3 ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m gi\u00e0u nh\u1edd vi\u1ebft s\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n<p>\u1ede M\u1ef9, m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc d\u00e0nh 75% th\u1eddi gian cho vi\u1ec7c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u00e0 vi\u1ebft s\u00e1ch. Tuy nhi\u00ean, m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 uy\u00ean b\u00e1c l\u1eafm th\u00ec c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 vi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u0103m cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng. M\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ea7u s\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u khoa h\u1ecdc mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c duy\u1ec7t b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed3ng chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n v\u1edbi c\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n r\u1ea5t kh\u1eaft khe. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n \u00edt nh\u1ea5t n\u0103m n\u0103m \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ee7 c\u00e1c kh\u00e2u thu th\u1eadp, ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n, t\u1ed5ng h\u1ee3p, ph\u00e2n t\u00edch d\u1eef li\u1ec7u\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Trong nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u anh ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u00e2u thu th\u1eadp th\u00f4ng tin l\u00e0 th\u1ebf, v\u1eady trong vai tr\u00f2 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y, anh ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec khi h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn cho sinh vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh?<\/p>\n<p>T\u00f4i ch\u1ecdn ngh\u1ec1 gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u0169ng v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n tr\u1ea3 \u01a1n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e3 cho t\u00f4i g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y gi\u1ecfi v\u00e0 h\u1ebft l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi sinh vi\u00ean. Trong vai tr\u00f2 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y, t\u00f4i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn sinh vi\u00ean c\u00e1ch d\u00f9ng l\u0103ng k\u00ednh v\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 quan s\u00e1t s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t, s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c nh\u00f3m x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. V\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u sinh vi\u00ean v\u1eabn ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0nh X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean c\u1ea3m t\u00ednh n\u00ean t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng minh cho sinh vi\u00ean th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a d\u1eef li\u1ec7u thu th\u1eadp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean quan s\u00e1t v\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf.<\/p>\n<p>Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi chuy\u1ec3n v\u1ec1 Pomona, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 b\u1ed1n n\u0103m d\u1ea1y t\u1ea1i UC Santa Barbara, m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc chuy\u00ean v\u1ec1 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 uy t\u00edn. Khi t\u00f4i ra \u0111i, c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 \u0111\u1ec1u cho r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00fang. 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